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10.Be Attractive



Mutual relation depends on common likings, disliking and habits of each other. To co-operate with others is to make him happy. Satisfy other by serving. Be open could win other hearts. Be truthful could be trustworthy. The most beautiful things of the world are the most useless. The most beautiful thing of the world does not come to any use. In the worldly life, it is not possible to have a ever beautiful thing. A beautiful thing is not limited to any category. Present yourself in a new appearance of personality by a change in our face, by a new style in your hair, beard or moustache by a new dress, by a new polish in your shoe. It is better to maintain discipline and cleanliness in your words, mind, behaviour, activities and everywhere. A washed cloth does not become dirty soon when indigo is used in it. Dress yourself according to the customs of the society. Love is created from a commonsense of decency and cleanliness safeguards it. Even from the sanctity of the body, a sympathetic mentality is grown. No expenditure is involved for cleanlines, but only a tasteful mentality is required. A good dress will open all doors for you. A well dressed man is naturally welcome everywhere. Dress does not enriches a man's human characteristics, but when a man becomes a human being in its real sense. Cheap dress makes a cheap man. Sometimes a man is identified by his dress. Food is for one's own taste, but dress is for others acceptance. Keep your body, soul and dress purified. Keep your dress clean, but don't make it pompous. Dress up yourself like a gentleman, at the same time make your conduct like a gentleman, otherwise you may be embarrassed. Shamelessness makes a man filthy, shyness makes him decent. Sea covers the earth, wall covers a house, king covers a country and character is the cover of a housewife. Dress and ornaments are the sources of delight. Bees beautify flowers and skin is beauty of a cow. Flower vase in a dirty place and a beautiful woman with an ugly man. Everything is good to its proper place but good things fallen to dirty places also become a dirt. When eyebrow is used in the body, it looks odd. Fashion is mask and style is the face. It is not surprising that fashion will change. Fashion is not only a popular trend but also the demand of the time. Style is for those who care for their own mentality and fashion is for those whose profession is to please others. Do not hate for complexion, might be inner beauty charm you. Don't judge a man according to his financial status. Try to evaluate him by his education and qualities of his character. A nice figure is better than a nice face, a good conduct is better than a nice figure, it is the finest art of all arts. During judgment of a man's over all president ability, figure comes before complexion and art of speaking comes before figure. Art of speaking is the finest of all arts. In this world, nothing is so polite than beauty. When a man understands that within a beauty, no love, sympathy or good taste is there, then he quits that beauty. Man does not accept that beauty for enjoyment for a while. The real beauty is present in the grave of the saint, not in the greedy man who is sensual to enjoyment. A voracious eater does not know the art of eating. No cosmetics is more attractive than the intelligence and conduct. This is the real beauty. If you don't have the required qualities, your physical beauty will have no value, if you are not courteous, your education cannot help you much and a miser's wealth does not come to any help of himself. Maintenance of physical beautify is a habit for woman which is the desire for man. Physical beauty delights eyes but qualities of a man win other's hearts. By dint of good behaviour a mother-inlaw becomes a respectable mother to her daughter-inlaw, on the other hand, due to harsh behaviour the same mother-inlaw becomes a wizard. He has the right to rule who loves. The command bases on love are long lasting and effective. One is to know the art of eating, matching of clothing, art of talking, art of expressing difference about likings and disliking religious belief, political ideology, difference of opinion, way of recreation, financial claims, production of child, growing than up, influence of the third person in the family, love affairs before and after marriage etc. should be sloved with patience and tactfulness. A man does not become nice only by his nice loving face, if he does not have a nice mentality. A beauty cannot be fully judged if it is not separated with one's desires and greed's. If we observe something like an illiterate and uncontrolled that incomplete observation does not give us satisfaction but thirst, not drink. Like drinking wine in an empty stomach and thus spoiling the appetite for good food. Till the sense of beauty is covered by the naked desire of enjoyment, the complete sense of beauty is not felt. The real beauty can only be seen by heart. Everybody is having more or less beauty but it cannot be seen by all. As physical beauty makes a man outwardly superior to some extent, the good qualities of man beatifies his mind as well. Sense of beauty is not fond by search, but when such feelings are continued, gradually a layer is created in the mind fully beyond our knowledge and consciousness. Beauty is nothing but a promise for happiness. Beauty stands on the base of necessity. Beauty is such a power by which woman charm their loves and make their husbands worried. We can imagine that beauty is very temporary with the instance of a flower. Flower is a natural coin, which cannot be stored for long. Happiness and peace of mind is the most essential cosmetics for increasing beauty. Whatever helps man to be united with others like one soul, is the divine gift, the most beautiful, and whatever disunites man is against divine and it is ugly. To love beauty and to make oneself beautiful are the two different matters. The physical beauty only is beastly, if there is no intelligence in it. Everybody is having beauty within himself but everybody cannot see it. It is better to cover the physical beauty than keeping it naked. The sense of beauty is a great quality of nation, when this social customs and civilization is evaluated. The nation which does not have the sense of beauty, is backward to a great extent. To have a new thing is the main factor of eagerness. Man is naturally humourous. But the way differs from each other. Somebody enjoys a stupid humours, somebody an ordinary and somebody a very fine one. Those who enjoy by pinching and attacking others, are the majority in the world. Because most of the people are yet beyond civilization level. A joke stimulated over heart and this stimulation of our heart is a source of joy. Even a fright is also joyful, when there is no practical reason of fright behind it. Laughter through a comedy and tears through a tragedy depend on the differences of woes. It is possible to keep your face always smiling, through a regular practice. Laughter can blot a great sea of sorrows. When you laugh, you can't be angry with somebody. In fact laughter teach a man to be patient. He who laughs with open heart, cannot be a very bad man. Smile is the wisest and easiest answer to any question. He who does not know how to smile is not even fit to be a prisoner. There is no possibility of breach his peace. Because his whole life is a prisons of full of pains. He who cannot laugh, cannot face the odd days of his life. Because he is always upset of bitterness. With a smile of a child, the difference of nationality, country, castle, religion goes away. We don't laugh because we are happy, rather we are happy because we laugh. The home where is laugh is with bright colours. Laughter is contagious. If somebody always remains smiling, cheerful and hopeful, it positively affects everybody around him. Always talk with a smiling face. A man's humanity is expressed by his smile, jokes, sincerity, regardfulness and affection. Smile when you are happy and laugh at jokes. In the material world light and thunder are instances of it. One is the result of a movement and permanent and the other is the result of a clash and sudden. The face which cannot smile, is not a good face. A smile does not have financial value but is precious. He who cannot laugh open heartedly, is the most unhappy man in the world. A good joke is good for mental health, whereas gloominess is poisonous. To think nicely and to smile nicely are the easiest jobs in the world. Man is the only creature whom Allah has given the power of laughing. He who can laugh till last he laugh in the nicest way. Smile at first sight is far better than laughter at last. Man suffers so much in the world that he has been compelled to discover laughing. He who cannot smile is not fit for running a business. Laughing after a talk is the proper one. If you can make a man laughing, he will like you also rely on you. Smiling and weeping are the two kinds of expressions of a feeling, one is airy and the other is watery. Don't know so much which will refrain from laughing, laughing is the most joyful thing in the life. The young man who never wept is a beast and the old man who never laughs is a foolish. A laugh may not cure a patient but it does less his pains at lest for a while, it lightens the burden of a problem stricken man. It has no side effect and nobody is to purchase it in lime of money. He who can make others laughing, becomes a popular man without any condition. Those who can laugh live long. Few people know that the flow of health depends much on the ability of laughing. A great laughter is the sign of a vacant mentality. A laughter is the sign of open-heartedness. He who laughs at last after understanding something very well, presents a meaningful laugh. A flower is the smile of the earth. Everybody should try to enrich this smile. One should know how to laugh and then only he becomes conscious about, a mistake. The day is worst when we can't laugh. Laughing is the nicest lotus of human life. So drive away envy and egoism which is the enemy of  laugh. Laugh is good, may be in any way. Laugh open-heartedly. Company of a jolly, courageous, joking and smiling man is helpful to relive the loneliness of others.

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