A nice smiling look, great sayings, stories of the
heroes, a luxurious smile and a overall nice figure always increase the joy of
people. Repay bad deeds with good ones. As a result, the others will give up
the previous policy. In this way, if you feel yourself inferior, still you will
be humoured by others. Create a warm and heartiest relation with others by
trying to understand their interests through listening, trying to understand
their mentality and observing them. If you discuss about positive qualities of
a man patiently, liberally and honestly, it will compel him to give up his
negative attitude and notions. Try to win others by gaining reputation at the
first sight. To create a positive interest nicely in other's mind and thus to
help him and to make him joyful is the ultimate attainment of man. In this way,
love will grow within you for other and the others will also love you. To pass
good remarks about a man who is not worthy of such, is a noble man's quality.
In this way day by day number of good friends increases. A bad man's friendship
increases at the beginning but it decreases day by day, but a good man's
friendship is seen less at the beginning but it increases day by day. Those who
do not criticizes others, are adorned to everybody. He who can help others is
to come back from others doors and he who can love others can enter everywhere.
A good face is the best of recommendation. Your face is such a book where
others can read many things. It's band to fight with a man with a good face. He
who is having a good face, a melodious tone and a well built figure, gets
whatever he wants. He who can console a disheartened man and can give him
mental happiness is the best-chosen man. He who is having sympathy for others,
is patient, dearly to everybody and calm, is having no enemy. One should not
meet the children, patients, saints, kings and his associates empty handed. Be
firm on truth, serve the old people, protect all creatures, pay respect to all,
be kind to poor people, have mother like regard for others wives, take your
wife as your better half, be fatherly to your subjects, don't be too much
involved with material world, please others with good deeds. Increase happiness
of your friends. Smile, cheerfulness, sincere talks drive away all dangers. By
being pleased to, listening to minutely, offering a seat, looking gently,
waiting, tolerating, employing, making fun, eating something along, praising,
remembering, going trip along, helping during odd days, paying respect, talking
intimately, extending financial help in need, solving disputes, etc. increases
love between each other. The feelings of dearest ones are always contagious. A
man becomes happy at the weal of his dearest one and he also becomes sad at his
woe. When others will love us, we can love them. To be a attentive listener, to
be interested about others welfare and to be co-operative with others is the
key to gain popularity. Popularity? It's a reputation worth a penny. In our
culture, he is liked by all, who is having a natural instinct for popularity
with the combination of sex appeal. The key to increase popularity is hidden in
his personality who can make himself attractive to others within no time. Tell
others about the matters of their liking, about their health, happiness, peace,
job, ideology, likings and disliking, about their love affairs, about their
problems and materializing their plans, with a sweet tone, with a smiling face
and in a lively manner to others. Sometimes exchange gifts with each other, it
creates friendship with each other and decreases distance between each other.
In short, behave with others keeping his mentality and temperament in view. And
if you make some mistake and it has come to the notice of others, then admit it
without any hesitation, feel sorry for it and ask for others co-operative in
this regard. He who can convince others very easily, can create interest in
others about some task, can surely earn more than others by the means he wants.
Ability to control human relations can be brought by cash like tea and coffee.
To give others a chance to feel themselves best and to give them a chance to
speak about themselves is also a key to popularity. Express a particular appeal
in your looking. A blank look is always bad and unjustified. Encourage others
and create a faith about the same physically, mentally and in their sayings and
give them mental happiness. Tell clearly what you want from others. If you are
simple yourself, others will also be same to you. Whatever you say is taken how
you say it. Whatever you do is taken how you do it. Whatever you watch is
justified how you see it. We want to attract others to us. If you can exactly
evaluate others ability, then regarding social behaviour, you can very easily
adjust yourself with anybody. A cordial social behaviour is grown through
mutual regard. A man having an average degree of egoism is the most acceptable
to others. Love of all people, popularity among all people and a personality
with a power of winning others hearts are the best requirements for social
peace and security. Everybody should try to increase his knowledge and decency,
according to the theory of status, everybody gets the reward of the qualities
of his conduct. When the qualities and mentalities of two persons are seen to
be similar, then co-operation, unity and attraction between them grows higher.
If you don't show your egoism and sincerely be obedient to someone, there
feelings of the other person increase for you. You should have more than what
you show and you should talk less than what you know. When you will talke to
somebody, talk very courteously and a sense of humour within the limit of
courtesy must be there in your words. Love cannot grow between any two persons,
for more gossiping any to idiots are sufficient. Among the qualities which
unite people, obedience is the most important. The way to enter anybody's heart
is his belly. Somebody is found of music or traveling or mixing with girls,
somebody wants to protect his heredity, somebody may be found of nudity or geography
or pornography. Somebody's hobby is reading or writing or practicing politics,
somebody's hobby is botany or patriotism and again somebody involves him in
anti-state activities, somebody enjoys sex by looming, somebody by showing and
somebody by masturbation, again somebody believes in self-control. Deal with a
person as he is show interest about his dealings and remarks about others. Also
show interest about his work, speech, problems. If you want make an good and
easy relation with somebody, first of all, you are to drive away from his mind
about fear and egoism if any. If you accept somebody very easily, you well not
be disappointed by his behaviour. Any person or any occurrence is delightful
from some point of view. If you can accept everybody and everything in this
way, then you can overcome all you confusions, fear, tension and you can be
very well adjusted with everybody. Spend some time to ground cordial relation
with others with courtesy, sympathy and regardful behaviour. If you can stand
to like yourself, then you will become self-confident and creative day by day.
Friendliness, broad mindedness, open heartedness, sense of sympathy, sense of
duty, cheerfulness etc. are the characteristics of an attractive personality.
Man likes the beauty of character. You can't win the heart of others without
winning their regard and confidence. Human soul breaks down by cruel and harsh
behaviours. Man is upgraded by good behaviour and reasonability and by
threatening he becomes a slave with a broken heart. It is possible to win
other's heart by love, mercy, good and nice behaviour. Only by courtesy and
love, it is possible to win other's heart. Everybody wants mercy, love or good
behaviour. The best weapon to win the hearts of others is one's own qualities
and to regard others. Education, good conduct and intelligence are the
qualities. Man's heart is to be won by intelligence, good conduct and
reasonability. A great pain of somebody can be relieved by showing sympathy to
him. Man is overwhelmed mostly by love, sympathy, good taste, soft words and
good behaviour. A man's heart attracts sweet wisely and sincere talks. Sympathy
between each other is the way to success. Relation without any interest is the
best, because everybody avoids a person who wants something. Man becomes
intimate by sincerity. Generally, we judge a man by his outward appearance.
Normally, we don't think about his abilities or other qualities. Everybody is
having eyes but few of them have the ability to judge the inner qualities of
others. Combine fairness and seriousness in your personality. Try to mix
everybody. Without communication no intimacy is grown. The kite tied with a
reel realizes that the reel is him closest one when the reel pulls the kite. The reel also
realizes that the kite is also his closest one who is continuously pulling him.
A man is attracted by something exceptional. He who can be intimate by his
talks becomes much closer to somebody. Everybody can praise him who is polished
by his conversation and conduct. A good news from motherland to a man staying
abroad is as sweet as pure water to a thirsty man. It is very hard to please
everybody. Don't accompany such a man who remembers your faults and forgets
your good qualities. It you want to establish yourself, accompany the people
having good qualities. Loneliness is better than bad companions. Man cannot
live without a pleasing companion. Be courteous to everybody, learn how to mix
with everybody, be close to some people, be friend of one person only and enemy
of none. None can acquire sincerity by sweating, neither it can be hired but
one can hold it in his character. He is the simple man who does not analyses
anything. Praise the wise man in their absence but praise the woman in her
presence. Please woman by garland, essence, gift and ornaments. All of our
deeds are inspired by our basic desires, so for a business man, a politician, a
housewife or a student, the best advice is to create some desire in other
minds. If you can do it you can win the whole world. You won't have to suffer
from loneliness anymore. Utter some sweet words as soon as you meet women. Then
the topic of her beauty is to be raised and she is to be pleased by humourous
gossips. In the social gatherings, literacy and art functions, roaming in the
wood yard, men and women are to meet each other. The main object of roaming is
to make the mind fresh and cheerful. Affection, qualities and wisdom are the
means of wining somebody's heart. An affectionate patron, a boyhood companion,
a life-saver, person of same personality and a class-mate is always intimate. A
qualified patron, hereditary friendship, the person with whom no conflict has
ever been occurred, who has never felt mentally disturbed by you, he who is
always obedient, he who does not leave you in any circumstance, a man with good
character, he who never discloses other's secret matters, can win the hearts of
others. Class patron- washer man, barbers, gardeners, grocers, wine dealer,
milkman, betel-nut sellers, jewelers, educated people are the helping hands in
general. But if they have the qualities like a good spokesman, ability to
understand an untold ward, ready witness, ability to do the right thing in
right time and overall the ability to grow a cordial relation with others make
them extra ordinary. A cheerful temperament is the best dress to wear in the
society. Don't shake hands all the time with all with much interest. If
somebody extend his right hand to you for shaking, then you should also extend
your right hand to him. It is easy to shake hand but to shake a heart is not
easy like that. Shake hands with each other, because it decreases ill feelings.
Courtesy and good behaviour are the two branches of religious faith and talking
unnecessarily and ostentation are the two branches of deceit. Acting is always
very accurate and is more beautiful and colourful than the real one. Because
one is to remain alert all the time to perform it accurately. An artificial
thing is much more attractive and colourful than the real one. He is the most
efficient actor who can make others weep and laugh equally. He who judges
others by his origins of birth, is no doubt a mean-minded man. Eyes are the
mirror of a man's mind. But everybody cannot read out the language of the eyes.
They who have similarity of thought, feelings for each other, only they can
read out each other's language of the eyes. The sight which has no
communication with mind, is not seeing but looking only. If you are not
mentally in favour of somebody, you won't find out his qualities. If somebody
does not want to see something, he will close his eyes even if there is light
there. Regarding taste, you can advise somebody but not directive. Beauty has
such an attractive power that wherever it may be present, in man or woman,
fruit or flower, sky or sea or animal, it overwhelms a man. If you disagree
with somebody at a time, is not at all. Silently and continuously understanding
is going on between mind and the realities. Mind changes in absence of one's
concourses. So all on a sudden, it is found that your supports have stranded
protesting you. Strength, intelligence and reliance are not permanent. He who
behaves well with the person who harmed him, he who uses sweet words in
response to harsh words, whose heart is full of love, this world is like heaven
to him. Show interest about weal and woe of others in your daily life.
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