Allah only is sufficient for those who depend on him.
Analyze yourself and attain self confidence. The way to grow self-confidence is
to do the job to which you are frightened. Only a regular practice develops
courage, self-confidence and eagerness. So long you can't attain self
confidence, you can't think yourself nothing but a helpless one. Human beings
when fallen in a helpless condition, wants to depend on many external powers to
solve their personal problems. We should understand that our future depends on
ourselves. Nothing becomes one’s own if he does not acquire it. Strength and
development are the signs of a life. Those who are self controlled are
realistic, calm and sensitive. You are now at the stage which is the result of
your past actions and thoughts. Don’t be too long so that you are fallen down
by storms and don’t be too short so that you are eaten by the goats. Treat five
things as valuable before five states- Youth before old age, health before
illness, solvency before poverty, leisure before work and life before death.
Everybody is the leader of his own deeds. Nobody bothers for anybody, everybody
is for himself. Where life is not possible nothing can be done. Everybody's
life is his own life. Everybody is the maker of his destiny. Not his father or
mother or grand father. Everybody has the right to live according to his own
will and choice. I have to live for myself alone. My life is the most valuable
thing to me. Sometimes we are surprised at first but later on we reach to a
tranquilized state. Lone people feel pleasure in this. A man realizes about
himself when everything is over. When you can’t adjust yourself with anything,
you will feel that you are distinct from others. And lastly, you will feel that
you are nothing. He who knows himself, gets relief from all worries. Many
ideologies and too much of criticism make clash in a state. Nobody wants to
give anything to somebody. You are to snatch your dues strongly like a hero.
You will get nothing if you remain idle and keep on waiting what nature give
you automatically. What one can realize from the world is the main factor.
Depend on yourself and establish yourself. Keep on struggling for you
existence, otherwise, you will be perished. The world is for him who knows how
to live properly. He who lives for his own happiness, leads a meaningful life.
Everybody is busy wih himself only. So, everybody should lead his life suitable
for him. So long you live, you must know how to live well. Either live or die,
either sink or swim. Live and let live is the opinion of ethics. Obstruction
teaches us sometime. A man is deceived by his own made theory. Due to our
meanness, narrowness of mind, weakness of personality, doubt and lack of
self-confidence, we have made ourselves mean. Due to lack if courage,
self-confidence and confusion, we don't find the real object. We are mistaken
in our desires, we are also mistaken in our general knowledge about our sense
of rights. Ignorance and dependence on others makes a man distressed in various
fields of his life. Everybody is existing with the support of something. It
don't mean an external support but mental support of himself, in absence of
this support, a man floats like a boat without an anchor. This support is the
source of his power, the center of his personality or his pride. Somebody is
proud of knowledge, somebody of piousness, somebody of reputation and somebody
is proud of money. We try to keep our lives stable with the help of these
anchors. A pious man grips religion and a wise man, wisdom. A wealthy man
thinks that he is surviving with power of his wealth. Physical strength is not
only the source of strength but will power is the prime source of strength.
Mystery of self-development lies in self-confidence and faith in God. Know
thyself and then you will know everybody. Depending on others is a symptom of
mental crippleness, nobody can prosper in his life in this way. He who cannot
master on himself, can never be independent. He who has confidence on his own
power, will sooner or later be able to raise his head above others. It is
better to be envied by others than to beg mercy from them. Dependability on
others is the symptoms of cowardness. Only those are not having
self-confidence, depend on others. They can never face any danger or trouble
strongly with their own power. A tiger is the symbol of heroism. Not a lion who
mostly remains idle and maintains its livelihood with the earnings of its
enormous wives but it is a tiger who remains alone with its strong personality
is the symbol of manliness. The hunter who hunts with the help of a herd of
beasts, normally lacks self-confidence and manliness. Take care of your
mentality and conduct. Follow your own ideology, don’t depend on others but
start your job according to your commonsense and don’t be tired of searching
for a guide. Take care of your own ideology and remain away from the opposite
ideologies. Both superiority complex as well as inferiority complex are the
defects of a character. One should assess oneself correctly. Never think
yourself inferior to anybody else. One cheats himself more than others. He who
can’t keep his personality as it is even after carrying out all his duties and
responsibilities is not a full-fledged man. Why should one depend on others for
his own life, desires and pleasures? This tendency is no doubt possessed by a
coward. Somebody may criticize you after findings you in doing an ordinary job
but if you want a single favour from him in your odd days, he will leave you
very speedily. Don’t depend on anybody but depend on your hands and feet. Dependability,
efforts for being self-sufficient, silent competition, frustration egoism and
high thoughts disturb our normal mental manifestation. You are to be confident
on your personality, self-power and independent conscience. We should not keep
on depending on others. One cannot live on depending on others or by their
mercy. We must meet our wants and pains ourselves. Ignorance and dependence on
others, is really insulting. Own power is the best power. We can succeed if we
become confident on our own strength than depending on others. One acquires
self-empowerment when he can take all decisions about himself independently
side by side with leading his daily life. There are financial, social,
political and cultural aspects of empowerment. Past or future is not concrete,
present is for happiness, learn how to live with your own rights, men live with
his self-evaluation. One should not beg mercy of others during fright or
frustration. Dependability is regretful for a man. A man is insulted in two
ways, firstly by ignorance and secondly by dependability. He deserves insult
who allows others to insult him. If you want to show yourself as what you are
not really, then your actual status will always pinch you. You are to find out
your own way. The largest way is the way found without understanding it. Once
this way is closed, all the routine activities do not stop all right. But
neither any way remains to go to the sea shore or climbing to the mountain
peak. Power and capabilities of human being are unlimited. Human beings possess
unlimited powers. But it is a matter of great regret that human beings are not
fully aware of their powers. A man’s life is too tough, it keeps no scope
unturned for its survival. It does not understand itself about its own powers
till it is compelled to do so. Range of intelligence of a man is much longer
than his sense, it dares to participate in all the races of the world. There is
some power reserved in a man. Which is excessive to his requirement. Power of
animals in limited, as such, they don't create anything. As the power of
mankind is unlimited, they create their civilisation with it. Human being
cannot attain accuracy and full-fledgedness. As there is an end in
full-fledgedness. There is a seed inside a mango, which is neigher sweet, not
soft, nor is eatable, but all mangoes are dependent to that hard material, they
get their shape and kind from it. First save yourself, then save others. For
economic progress, a creative and liberal personality is required. If a nation
cannot attain a psychological change, its progress will not speed up. Success
of economic activities mostly depend on will. Tendency of acquiring inspires
man to acquire something which is inspired by a sense of self-sufficiency and
self-consciousness. At this stage, taking risk, carrying out personal duties
and responsibilities and creative tendency bring establishment in one’s life.
Determination of a high ranging target, self-confidence, warmly environment of
love, encouragement, inspiration of nearest and dearest persons, one’s own will
power and a mentality are required to face the challenge for financial
development. Any ideology, materialistic or spiritualism is the most important
factor of growing a tendency of acquiring something. False fear about self
defense is removed even in enormous unfavourable situations by enriching sense
of equity and thus a self dependence is grown in oneself. In this way, one gets
relief from useless worries. And he acquires a power of overcoming the ever
changing obstacles on his way. It is a human tendency to worry about their
future security. It is easier for a self sufficient person to be master of his
environment and surrounding. Family, institutions, social values etc. determine
the degree and nature of the inspirations of human beings and thus make them
self dependent. Sense of prestige of a person develops in a person with the
development of his moral character and development of moral character develops
a sense of duty in a person. Self confidence and power of creation of human being
can create noble in the world. He becomes more powerful and great don’t falling
into illness by misery. No doctrine or organization only the spontaneous
inspiration determined our nobility can make us modern eligible people. Not
dependent should be self sufficient and self dependent. Should set about
practice with dedication. A person is the saviour of himself, there is no other
saviour. If you want to be self dependent, you are to be skilled in some job.
Power of a stage is the ladder to rise to the next stage.
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