The self-power of knowledge acquired by courtesy makes
a life full-fledged. You are to analyze your spoiled past neutrally and without
any fear. How will you know that a fruit is ripe? Very easily, because it will
fall down from the branch of the tree. You are to know more about yourself,
what you have done, what you are doing and why? Whatever notion you will hold
about yourself, will be reflected from others to you. Who are you, what do you
do, what you have? It is not important, what others thinking of you, what you
think about yourself, is important. What you think about it is more important
than what you feel about it. It is useless to say what you were but it is
reality what you are now. How you were is not important. But how you are at
present is important. What you are is more important than what you want to be.
Know yourself first and then conduct yourself accordingly. We know what we are
but don’t know what we will be. Human beings always searches for himself in all
situations. Who am I, what am I and where am I? Every human being is austering
with this egoism. One can find out his identity if he can find out what he
wants, what he thinks and what he examines. A person prospers through
development of his personality. Be what you ought to be this is the first step
to improve yourself. So long you are existing, you and your ego will exist.
Nobody shows interest for anything where he has no personal gain. It's not
important who has born where, but where their life will come to end, is important.
He who can keep balance of himself, can exist, he who is remembered by people
even after his death is long living. He who proceeds forward even under mental
pressure and neglecting many providing factors, attains mental maturity and
stability. Every person is having a different personality and tendency of
demands. Basic and biological demands are those without which no creature can
remain alive. For example- food, clothings and shelter. Demand relating to
security for example including physical, financial, professional, future,
income, life, wealth, honour and family, many other securities in different
stages of life. Demands related to association and love- a man desires that
others should like him, should feel for him and he should have importance in
the society. Demands relating to prestige- a man desires for getting praise and
prestige in his family, society and nation through playing an important role.
Demands relating to self fulfillment in this stage, a man wants to evaluate his
life. He wants to express some creativity. Self sufficient boys and girls takes
up new jobs with great zeal. Do own jobs and be courageous. Fooding, clothing
and shelter meet the physical demands of a person. And then education, health,
faith, security, love and social customs meet the mental demands of human
beings. Women should never be grown up as dependable to the man. Social
development will be hindered if men and women are not given equal facilities
and status. One becomes self dependent if he gets proper guidance. Those who
are financially solvent are normally disobedient. A man feels necessity of
something according to his want. It is a weakness of personality to feel a
sense of want and fulfillment of unfulfilled desire is called enjoyment. When a
sense of want becomes stronger, desire for its fulfillment becomes more
stronger. Always try to establish your right for fulfillment of your basic
wants. In every moment, think positively about everything and try to fulfill
your demands. Every action has an equal and opposite reaction. Assess yourself
as capable and efficient for your duties and then it will react positively for
you. Come out from being a partial man, only then you will be able to be self
sufficient. Those who are helpless, become selfish only to survive. We should
have the strength to remain alive and to keep our existence, if we want more
than this, we are to acquire some special qualifications. Every life is a
struggle and it is for his own interest. So long a man lives, his necessities
remain. Our existence depends on some preconditions, it may be social, physical
or imaginary. A man has no external valuation. He has to make himself valuable.
A man has full liberty to grow himself. To do anything for his own welfare and
to accept any ideology. Everybody is to proceed with his own capability. The
more we proceeds through the way of life, the more we understand about our
limit. Don’t wait for other’s help but try yourself to do your duties.
Specially economic uncertainty, that of social insecurity make one dependent to
other. You can make your image through your assessment about yourself. One can
remain free from mental torture if he becomes self-sufficient and does not beg
for other’s sympathy. Follow such a principle like barter system that you will
cooperate with everybody and everybody will cooperate with you. One’s power and
wisdom is tested by forming a good personality and to win himself. The main
cause of one’s failure is the ignorance about own power and weakness. He must
prosper who helps themselve rather asking for help. Sense of reasoning develops
within oneself through his belief in science, his own power and
self-confidence. The most important factor of a man’s personality is
self-realization. He who knows himself, knows everybody. So, he who understand
what is false, need not be afraid of it. A man can get royal honour by
attaining self-confidence, self-assessment and self-control. One’s happiness
and labour make the structure of his life. You should find out the way yourself
for your betterment. A known way is better although it is zigzag and an unknown
way is not good, although it is straight. You are to forget the sense of honour
and dishonour, you are to remember that if you steal, if you are dependent on
others and pass a lazy life, your life will be dishonoured. A homesick can
never prosper in his life. Too much of homesickness and fear from going abroad,
is not good at all. Everywhere there is help as well as danger for you. Some of
us measure the success of life by money, somebody by education, somebody by
religion, somebody by peace and somebody by beauty. The sum of the world is
complicated due to this, the world is so interesting as each of us has a
different desire from his birth. He who depends on his hands and feet does not
become loser in the long run. The moral courage like standing on one’s own feet
is the precondition for being self-sufficient. Save yourself with the help of
your own intelligence, don’t degrade yourself. Be a friend of yourself. Nobody
can help him who thinks about himself as an incapable man. He who can defend
himself, does not need help of anybody else. To tell the truth sense of
prestige is the greatest art of life. Principles, morality or ideology,
whatever it may be, sense of prestige dominates over all these. One part of his
nature is fully blind, who thinks that he is alone. One can’t realize what is
good luck, till he is in distressed position. Good luck keeps on waiting to
meet with anybody but meets only with him who works hard. Our destiny depends
on our activities. Everybody is the architect of his luck and character. It is
habits which make a man’s luck. Tendencies of a person make his destiny.
Everybody makes his luck with his activities. So, it is his own responsibility
to build up himself. The oldest and well-known sin is to wait for destiny and
remain idle. The fortunists explains life through religious and supernatural
beliefs. And the reasonable persons, woks, analyses and make use of his
knowledge acquired day by day. A man can fully analyze any situation, his
position, any change, justification, possibility and the object and purpose of
his life when he is conscious. Don't depend on external support. A man cannot
change his status till he can't change his qualification. Nobody will bear the
burden of somebody else or continue helping others. An object is fulfilled by
its own resources and power not from anywhere else. Human beings are themselves
the inventor and source of their activities. Those who are coward, only look
for good luck. A self-confident man depends on his own power. Your hands and
brain will pull you up, not your forehead. Destiny leads the enthusiastic
people and destroys the inactive people. He becomes the most suppressed man who
can’t suppress his poverty. Destiny makes the world bitter very quickly, then a
tendency of avoiding everything is created among the people. Destiny does not
dare to come close to somebody who is having a good health and money. It is
better to remain cheerful all the time, to remain worried about future bad luck
means to spoil the life. There are ups and downs in human lives but there is
nothing like predestination. Luck is like a market. One is to remain there for
a long time, because, price falls if he remains their for a short time. Right
hand of luck is working hard and left hand is sincerity. He who believes in
luck, does not know how to build it. Only the wise and diligent persons can
build their luck. Only the weak people believe in luck and become weaker
through this belief. We think about our luck again and again when we are fallen
in a distressed situation. Weak people believe on fate and strong people
snatches it. Good luck always remains eager to meet with the courageous and
wise people. Luck teases him from apart, who sleeps much. He who always depend
on his luck, will never get his food. A farsighted man believes on fate, and a
strong man believes on reasons and its results. Luck is very eagerly waiting to
come to any door, but it does not come uninvited, it is to be called. Build
your luck yourself. No astrologer can make a good luck for anybody, rather,
some people are misguided by this practice. If fate breaches trust, your tooth
may be broken even by cream. Whatever is out of our reach, we call it as our
fate like a fool. How can we expect that everything will be under our control?
Fate is nothing, but an invention of weak hearted people. Strong people does
not bother for fate. They build the fate. Whatever we may think, we must pass
through the tide of the life, this is our fate. Believe in that fate which
comes irrespective of your activities and the result of your laziness. Destiny
is the unseen reality to be faced by every creature. One’s life is reflected in
the dim light with the cycling of the wheel of his life. Looking back is not
the substitute of getting relief from something. There is nothing like luck. It
is built on the efforts and regular care of everybody. He is the lucky man who
can finish his duties before reaching to the old age. He is lucky who can meet
an unexpected good luck. Allah helps them who help themselves. Don’t believe in
luck but believe in building luck. When luck favours somebody, popularity
accompanies him. Luck behaves with somebody like his mother and somebody else
like his step-mother. When luck favours somebody, he does not face any
hindrance on his way. When Allah gives you something, he gives you without
measurement. Dust becomes gold when touched by a lucky man. All doors are
closed for an unlucky man. No matter, there is abundance of wealth around you
but you won’t get it if your luck does not permit you. Allah helps the lucky
persons. If your fate wants to destroy you, fight against that by all means. We
are the makers of our luck. Don't blame on otehrs. Blame yourself and try for
betterment of yourself. He who expects prosperity for each of his idea and
converse with his ideas, is asleep, and when he works, he is awaken. A spider
makes a net with its ownsalve and is hindered by it. It's really a cruel self
activation. Although it can relieve itself from the net, it will find life is
interestless. Fate becomes full-fledged by the last deprivation. Man is the
engineer of the fate factory. Where he makes something by sweating, such chains
for his legs cutters and hammers are also made there. He is manly, who says I can,
I will be able and I can prove it. No space in the world remains vacant.
Whatever thing yow won't use, others will use it. If you can't be master of
yourself, others will become your masters. If you can't gain power, others will
occupy your belongings. If you continuously avoid the examinations, success
will go to others only. This is the reality. Death will attack you, everybody
will refuge you, throughout your way of life, thunder and storm are waiting for
you, this is the blessings for you, this is your reality. Everybody is to get
rid of difficulties by his own wit and means. You are to find out the way
through which you can reach your goal. If you earn honestly, determined to
carry out your duties, firm to keep your promise, don't tell a lie and don't
snatch others belongings, success will surely surrender to you. One’s luck is
developed through carrying out his duties properly and in times. One’s real
asset is his self-confidence and the best asset is his courteous behaviour.
Food is more essential than all thoughts, imaginations and ideologies. He who
does not make his son qualified for any honest profession, he indirectly helps
him to become a thief. We should never give much protection to anybody. The
inner qualities of a man does not get scope to come out if he lives in too much
of happiness, comfort and security. Those who suffer from too much poverty,
face too much insulation, don’t have any hope for the future, often break down
their chains themselves and does not wait for others help. Financial activities
are carried out on the basis of self-interest but moral activities are based on
others interest. Utility evaluates financial activities. Man acquires
full-fledged ness through winning himself. You are to find out the process of
work with the help of your intelligence and willingness, because, if you want
something, yourself is to try for it. Earning money, progress and facilities
can be acquired by practical knowledge. We are permanently benefited by our
thoughts and imaginations regarding the world hereafter. Heroism is expressed
in different ways according to the difference of place, time and objects,
somebody expresses it by knowledge, somebody by sacrifice, somebody by
enjoyment, somebody by piousness and somebody again by his deeds.
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