A man having a good heart, having sense of equity, who
is calm and wise performs good deeds habitually. Habit is to be grown to have
regard for others, not defaming anybody, controlling mind, words and deeds and
to remain truthful. We should learn how to donate, pray, remain
self-controlled, maintain good manner and etiquette. To do welfare activities
by wealth, labour, intelligence and words, is the ultimate goal of a human
being. Tell the truth, keep your promise, be honest as a custodian, remember
God in your heart for all the time, refrain from uttering slang words and acts.
Courteous words and behaviour win everywhere. Give importance to others
politely, speak and act with variety, rightfulness, easiness and simplicity. A
conduct becomes good or bad due to the affects of education and environment.
Learn how to refrain from envy, stealing, adultery, lieing, back biting,
speaking harshly, meaninglessly, greed, enmity, cruelty and having wrong notion.
Education and wealth is the measuring stick to measure one's standard of
conduct and qualities. Good manners are truthfulness, speaking nicely, to
refrain from envy, theft, adultery and unjust acts and maintaining honest
living. Kindness, sacrifice, love equity, intelligence and will are powers.
Transparency, improvement, wisdom, deeds, yoga, guarding, truth and favour are
also powers. The internal five powers are feelings, attention, merit,
imagination and memory. He who has truthfulness, piousness, intelligence and
self controll is an ideal man. By a man's conduct, his all activities are
directed. Great people will defeat common people for all the time with the
power of their conduct, as mankind has defeated the apes. Good conduct is the
source of all powers. There is no difference between a proper manner and
piousness. A man does not become religious by his outlook but a good conduct is
the shield of religion. Wisdom is protected by yoga, a good policy protects a
kingdom and a housewife is the glory and protector of a family. Religion cannot
existence in absence of politeness. You should learn behaviour from your
ancestors. A pious man is identified by his conduct, not by his religious
knowledge. Customs of a community are related with their mental development.
Religious customs are valuable only when it serves as a media of self-education
for a person to development his character and personality. By activities and
behaviour of a man, his way of thinking is expressed. Behaviour according to a
person's own nature or his wisdom is the proper behaviour. For proper
development of humanity, one is to practice courage, patience and courtesy, he
is to be self-confident. Knowledge, arts, courtesy, teaching by sweet words,
serving a good man, paying respect to a respectable man, donation, practice of
religion, benevolent and welfare activities, politeness, friendship, self
satisfaction, gratitude, forgiveness, perseverance, speaking nicely and
attaining a neutral way of thinking are the qualities of a great man.
Self-control, sacrifice, good character, deep meditation, wisdom, punctuality,
enthusiasm, inspiration, sobriety, courtesy and discipline are the basis of all
prosperity of a man. Life of an honest is happy. Elimination of ignorance,
suppression of anger, right perception indicate a person possessed of good
character. A man can be pious by acquiring good qualities, remaining in peace,
practicing a regular meditation, roaming alone and thinking on philosophy.
Others can be suppressed, made servant, courteous and refrained from any
unwanted activity by being polite and refrained from any unwanted activity. An
honest, wise, stable, self-controlled man who is not slave of his passions,
does not judge true or false of anything on others' opinions. Refrain from all
evil activities openly or secretly. The activities directed towards a
particular purpose or happiness, is conduct. The main idea of conduct is to
lead your activities according to your ideal. Conscience controls a conduct.
Thinking for present and future happiness determines the nature of our conduct.
Fulfillment and preservation of self-interest, is the main purpose of a man`s
behaviour. Love is the source of a proper behaviour. Attain a good character,
eat less, be efficient in your job, be regardful and don't be slave of your
passions. We talk about conduct and judgment in a term, but conduct is not
discovered by human intelligence. So, it can't be changed by logic. To make
your conduct strong, you should compromise with your judgment. Be calm, self-controlled
and courteous. There is no peace in indiscipline. He who does not follow any
rules or regulations, suffers all the time. A man becomes good by his conduct
and becomes scholar by his judgement. Paying respect by touching feet, is very
much effective to suppress egoism. The woman who veiled, is never raped or
teased. Purdah controls the beastly passion of men and women and it prevents
psycho-physical diseases. You should show courtesy sacrificing all your egos,
as everybody is kind and favourable to a polite man. Don't ask any question or
protest for nothing and be thankful after you are replied. Be polite, hard
working and patient. Be soft like soil, not hard like stone, make your heart
soft and be obedient and you will be gainer. Whichever is hard, strong and
unresistable, are the companions of death and whichever is soft and weak are
the companions of life. If you are justified, you will be salvaged.
Truthfulness, honesty as a custodian and to avoid talking unnecessarily are the
three qualities of a good man. A man's politeness and sense of courtesy can be
judged when someone behaves rudely, indecently with him or shows his bad taste
infront of him. Keep your power hidden and be grateful, polite, courteous,
which will drive your dangers away and be enthusiasm and determine for more
prosperity. He is the best who is tactful, polite, gentle, religious and
honest. He who observes all customs, behaves well with everybody, civilized,
does not expose his sexual desire is a wise man. Skill in work, politeness and
speaking nicely lead a man to prosperity. Everybody is pleased with a
polite behaviour. A gentleman, pure,
calm, polite, affectionate, sympathetic, sweet-spoken, donor, forgiving and
benevolent man is loved by all. Lies, egoism, greed, hypocrisy, anger, envy,
slang language, fear, death, suffering and hell are created from the activities
against religion. Be regardful, religions, curious, greedless, calm, free from
envy, sharp in memory self-controlled, disinterested towards sex and tolerant.
Don't feel insulted or sorry if you are defeated by somebody. Politeness
suppresses anger and good manners limit a punishment. Those who are courteous
and polite, goes a long way ahead. Courtesy makes a man popular to others. A
man becomes polite and wise after a lot of sufferings and loss. A man's decency
is expressed by his courtesy not by his dress. He who understands the vagueness
of social customs, hates it. He who fears social customs, loses sense of
duties. Little courtesies make a life happy and great courtesies make a man
great. Be courteous and polite and pay respect to others. He who prospers by
courtesy, praise others, serves others and tolerates insulation of the evils,
is saluted by all. Courtesy is the decoration of a man. A good character man is
always courageous fearless and having unresistable power. A man's character is
developed by his polished and regardful behaviour and by his nature of praising
others. A bad character is to be mended by good behaviour and wisely advices.
Courtesy is generally earned and inherited from instinct. Defamation, rebuking
and neglectful remarks are the three kinds of faults of language. Touching,
raising, punishing and striking are the three characteristics of a punishment.
Indulgement with women, anger, too much talking, misery, shyness, ill
behaviour, egoism, not thinking for death, poverty, ambiguousness, envy,
offensive behaviour distrust, not make remedial action of anything, unability
and impatience are the bars for gaining something. If income of a person decreases
due to his ignorance, laziness, fear, sex, anger, egoism, greed, dictatorship,
excitement, disobedience, he is defaulter of enjoying that income. Kindness to
all creatures is good manner. Behave well with the weak people including your
parents and subordinates. Be simple and straightforward and console others.
Don't make others suffered by you and don't make them disgusted with you. Be
regardful to yours seniors, friendly to contemporaries and affectionate to
youngers. Worship the sole, best, honest and benevolent power, behave well with
your parents, relatives, orphans, poors, neighbours and common people. Courtesy
is harmed by offensive and loud talks. Have regard to your parents and refrain
from murder, adultery, theft, false witness and greed. A man who is having good
conduct, is kind and tactful, is everywhere welcome. He who serves his parents,
regards seniors, truthful, sweet-spoken, free from anger and back biting, is a
clean-hearted man like a saint. Serve your parents and be devoted to them. Those
who are regardful are generally regardful to all. Be regardful and courageous
and attain self-realization. One should not cut jokes infront of his seniors.
Simple conduct of life of an intellectual, make him respectful to others.
Courtesy in talks is good but character is to be firm. By your courteous and
sweet words, all will be your friends and will love you. Your behaviour and
courtesy should always be genuine. Good manners make a senior amiable, friends
pleasing and subordinates obedient. Good manner is the best gift from a father
to a son. He who does not learn good manner in his childhood, nothing good can
be expected from his even at his matured age. It is good manners which make a
man. To obtain etiquette a little bit is better than acquiring more knowledge.
Sense of prestige is behind all good behaviours. Good behaviour is the
expression of punctuality, well wishing, regard for others rights, comfort and
feelings. Nobody can be
considered as superior or inferior in all matters. The greatest qualified man
also is having a limited qualification. Good conduct and nice behaviour are
virtues. There is nothing stronger than courtesy, again there is no greater
courtesy than a power used judiciously. There is no school for learning
courtesy. This is an extra ordinary quality of a man. If you are good,
everybody will be good to you and respect you. If you are bad, everybody will
be bad to you and won't respect you. The world is to you as you think of it.
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