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77.Be Civillized



Sense of humanity is not an inherent quality of a man. Society plays a great role to flourish the physical and mental qualities of men. Man is naturally social. Man can change him through the social process only. A man has been compelled to be social due to outward influence rather than inward influence. As the outward situation controls a man's conduct, this situation is to be made humanly. So, everybody is to be given equal chance to avail the social facilities. A person's individual personality is also the result of a particular stage of the society. Even his religious belief and social conduct are also the product of the society. Social life is generally practical. The aim of human life is to flourish personality through active communication with the other members of the society. One's own interest is to be co-ordinated with greater social and national interest. Discipline of the world is related to the collection status of mankind. Man is influenced by the contemporary education, culture and heritage. The policy of self-interest is the foundation of social life. There is a history of evolution of human power. A group of creatures without power of speaking have made some rules in the earth exchanging some vocal sounds and through mental communications. In this way men earned their means of livelihood by continuous efforts through physical and mental communication with the outward nature. This wonderful civilization is the fruit of the silent efforts of uncounted people. The source of history, experience and the way of progress of the whole mankind is the same. In every age, there were a separate culture and a particular way of life which is exclusively the own pattern of life of the people of that age. Even way of life within a community or a family may vary from time to time. Modern civilization has accepted all the valuable things from the ancient civilization, which can never be neglected. The aryans and the semitic communities at first promoted themselves to civilized from barbarian form. The tribes conducted their lives on the way as described in communism. By a powerful and independent constitution, right of the members of the tribes, their facilities and responsibilities were decided and the personal and inter-personal rights were well preserved. Chiefs of the tribes were selected proportionately with the number of the members of the tribes, one for in every fifty. The basic principles of the tribe were independence, equality and brotherhood. The tribes, communities and alliances at a later stage ensured those existence. The basic principle of military organizations derives from tribal relations. Because its management was always exactly as it should be. People have to think for migration due to excessive population. The requisites of livelihood were produced in abundance but men had to struggle hard for it. How many people will live in a locality was decided upon the availability of the requisites of livelihood in that area. Otherwise it is not possible to attend and control the increasing population. The progress and existence of a tribe depended on intelligence, courage, wisdom and farsightedness of the members of the tribe. The right of taking decisions was bestowed upon a council or a military democracy, that is upon an unilateral government. On the most important and common interests the people, military commanders and the advisors took decisions. Everybody's interest was maintained in the common matters. Every man and woman used to conduct his life according to own style. Nobody envied each other, nobody harmed each others, even the houses were common. They had no headache about decency and right or wrong. Nobody even used to feel that he has any right over somebody else. In this way, gradually people acquired the techniques of self-administration. Family or lineage mean the total population of several villagers inherited from the same heredity, who are having the same language and customs, who are bound to follow the same regulations and to take the same legal remedies when needed and to work united during attacks and defensive operations. A family or a community becomes standstill without mutual co-operation. Good neighbourship is spoiled due to lack of mutual respect and cooperation. All the members of a tribe are independent. All of them enjoyed equal rights and privileges. The tribe was the source of their social, constitutional and religions activities. This conception of self-administration can flourish and express the average intelligence and qualities of an independent and well-educated community. Common people of any age is quite efficient and intelligent about social progress and welfare. A civilized society is based on morality and mutual respect, in absence of these political and economic infrastructures are destroyed. A nation is to pay a lot to become a modern as well as a civilized nation. In this regard the question of physical, financial, oral and military factors cannot be avoided in any way. Mainly by a military way of thinking, it is possible to unite a group of  people strongly under a community, driving away their individual differences. The relation system was based on a few conceptions. And remain effective by some customs, not by any legal interference. The roots of changes at every stage are the emergence of some special organizations which deeply influenced on the structure of the society. Each individual is the central of a row of relations. Two kinds of relation were created from a family blood relations and relation through marriage. All of them learned to treat the persons of the same age as relative, the previous generation as father and mothers and the next generation as sons and daughters etc. A tribe was the primary unit of social system. To make it as an organization some intellectual practice was required. Beginning of a peaceful life is possible through world-brotherhood. Where many people are to survive, there individual is to conduct himself according to his own limitation. The restraint of magnitude among all forms or limit of the world is best. Self-control is the nicest, welfare is ascetic. Ownership of land should be determined according to the population. Everybody should have equal right on rivers, streets, bars and community centers. Due to man-made disparities based on difference of mentality and physique, people disunited themselves into communities. Fights between communities could only be suppressed by spread of education. A society cannot make progress in a state of permanent terrorism. In this state, it becomes impossible for them to win the competition with the outsides. The society which is always engaged in its self-defense, cannot move freely. Every society is to proceed forward, keeping the society stable and being ready to face the dangers from time to time. Otherwise, it is to remain alive in a crippled form, to be closed to limitation. Man is for the society. So, people from us is to pray to Allah and all are to accept collectively what is found out of the prayers. Accessibility, simplicity and easiness are the symptoms of the real civilization. Complications made of long procedure is barbarian. In fact, that is the dump of waster made of sweating inabilities. No treaty is required if peaceful, commercial and honest friendship relation exists between all the nations. Nobody has come to the earth remain busy with himself only but all of us for all and everybody of us is for others. The main symptom of a man is that he is not alone. Everybody is related to many people and is made of many people. Man cannot live alone. Instance of that is that he grows up with the help of others, he is full-fledged when can mix up with all, this is the principle of a man. Where this rule is followed, civilization grows there itself. The man who is not social, is either an angel or a beast. He who is a good man, is a good citizen as well. If you want to make a man cultured, then start from his grandfather. The greatest necessity of today is understanding among all the nations. As understanding between person to person is required, understanding between nation to nation is more necessary. So long the world exists, this rule will remain and it is called culture. If somebody wants to acquire a high sense of decency and wishes to be a cultured man, he should mix with everybody and to talk and behave simply everywhere. Man born as barbarian and it is culture which make him civilized. Culture is the half way to heaven and a state without culture is a hale. No culture can prevail if people don't try to be independent and free. Culture introduces us with the best things of the world and with the glorious history of mankind as well. Culture is the only matter on the basis of which no particular assumption can be drawn, its excellence depends on the social amity. It is culture which opens the door of the sense of decency. A cheerful and intelligence face is the ultimate goal of culture. Culture means to live nicely and with varity. Living within bindings in a civilized society is better than living independently in an uncivilized society. Living a life in a society with the friends within bindings is far better than living independently in a jungle with the beasts. Relation between people grows on friendship and between nations it grows on reciprocal interest. The difference of the way of thinking differentiate a nation from another. The dream to make the life like a flower, confidence on people, strong confidence on human values are the viaticum's for a society to go forward. When this viaticum is lost, the society becomes standstill and becomes filthy. People lose their own rays. Firstly we are told to be a citizen. But a good conduct makes us a man. The excellence of character of man is the substitute of his heritage and religion. No culture can exist keeping it aloof from others cultures. The root of the latest culture is moral emotion. A person's mental excellence is depends to a great extent on the social excellence. The foundation of social culture is the prevalent common religion of the society. To maintain a fine balance between integrity and distinction should be the aim of a society. Because the basic uniformity of conceptions, beliefs and emotions keeps a social united. The collective progress of mankind enhances geometrically with the human activities including improvement of communication, flourish of printing and publication, improvement of schools, colleges and libraries etc. Through continuous sensual interaction an entity become compound. Civilization is the collective result of innumerous progressive acts of many people. Metropolitan life is like a reel of a paper with unlimited length. It is the civilized behaviours which make a man gentle. The world today wants that every citizen should be a soldier. And the games and sports should make their mentality accordingly so that they grow up with the suitable environment to reach the goal. Social life cannot run without mutual compromise among its members. To run a joint family is possible only when all its members feel themselves free and satisfied. When wants of everybody is less and the wants can be met with a little effort, then it is natural that some of them will try to live together and meet each other's wants and it is not hard. If the people have limited wants and the same goal, can be easily united and becomes strong for a unity of relations or community. But if there is a great difference of wants and goals between each other, the unity among them cannot remain strong. Our wants have increased and so many families have been broken. The greatest principles of mankind are social principles and greed is the great viler of that. In this age, passions create agitation in the society and make the relation of its members loose and separated. Men gradually have come up and are coming up from a stage of uncivilization. Although even at present, if there are hungry, they start theft food. Although acquiring a philosophy of your own, still you have to know popular customs to social composition. Rites and customs are the ways of life of a community. A society consists of two classes of people. Those who have more food then hunger and those who have more hunger than food. Due to lack of mutual understanding between the boarders of the upper and lower decks of  a ship, the illiterate and fool boarders of the lower deck will try to satisfy their thirst by making holes at the bottom of the ship. If at this stage, they can't be prevented verbally or physically and if the remedial actions can't be taken properly, all the boarders of the ship will die. Personal progress of the social beings depend on the co-operation of others to a great extent. Through good behaviour many impossible can be made possible. The minority communities are a sacred custody to the muslims. Capital cities are the greatest cities. In the village town the wind of the ages flow very slowly. Men changes there very slowly. There status of people also changes very slowly. Speedy changes occur in the lives of the people living in the cities only. No man is limited to his personal life, at the same time consciously or unconsciously, he is related to all his contemporaries. Whatever a society recommends, is social. A high thought may be unsocial at a particular place or in a particular time. In the flow of progress, the community based society has been converted into reasonable, secular and professional societies. The characteristics of this society are sense of universal values, a particular role and the importance of status, progressiveness, abundances of the sophisticated professional associations and classifications of professional merits. A society becomes modernized with the increase of its activities with more and more materials and instruments. A real modernization comes in a society with the economic progress gained through technological and organizational development and mental control. A society is established when many people involve in mutual activities to reach a definite goal. Distrust and dishonour crack a society. A society is not developed automatically. An ideal society is formed with the combination of well-thought decisions and great moral deeds. Taking necessary risks by the pioneers for development of a society create hopes and confidence in the minds of common people. Capital of a society is its collective capital, standard of civilization is determined by the standard of living and assets of its members. The root of the social system lies in work. The individual and mutual activities of people is based on the  prevailing sense of value in the society. The activities of a social system are to co-ordinate the system with the environment. New sense of values, new ideology and new faith make new social systems.

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