Don't create tension in others' minds, tolerate
others' protests and misbehaviour and don't neglect others. Never argue with anybody,
maintain friendly relation with all. By talking smilingly and courteous and
simple conduct one can easily get his purpose served by others. Keep silent
when others express ill feelings about yourself. And ask for excuse and promise
for corrective measure. In this way, mutual sympathy will grow. To tell
straightly, give up the tendency like a creditor, rather behave like a debtor.
Tolerate others, serve sympathical humanity. If you behave nicely with your
enemy all the time, one day he will become your friend. Behave well with
everybody, because you can't say, when and whose help you will need. Behave
with a rich man in the way that your prestige is protected and behave with a
poor man forgetting your prestige. He passes a proper life and is the proper
man, who acts justified, tells the truth, does not deface others, does not harm
his companions, does not harm the prestige of others, leaves the hatred people,
pays respect to others, does not harm others, keeps promise even at the cost of
his own loss and lends money without interest. If somebody pay respect to you,
you should also pay him so and if serves you, serve him in return. Be
benevolent to the benevolent and try to help him who is your well-wisher. Don't
cover your soul with unnecessary objects. Rather decorate your heart with
courtesy and calmness. Innumorus mentalities are tendency, pain, touch, sense,
consciousness, memory, wisdom, regard, shame, shamelessness, greedlessness,
envilessness, illusionlessness, valor, anger, suspicion, envy, treachery etc.
Don't do any act which results to any kind of suffering to others, and by which
any kind of physical, mental or spiritual weakness comes down. Mutual relation
affects a man's behaviour. A man may not behave with others in the way he
behaves lonely in a particular situation. Tendency and expectation of a man
sometimes affect a man's behaviour, so an expectation for peace is to be
created in the minds of the people. Activities with the feelings or expressing
own glory, defaming others, asking for help, tension etc. should be abandoned.
Behave well with women, children, travelers and neighbours. Behave well with
everybody, he may be rich or poor, ruler or ruled, while behaving with anybody,
keep in your mind about his status. As a result, you will gain a lot. Others'
love, a nice family life and good reputation are gained by good behaviour. A
good behaviour never goes in vain. Everybody expects good behaviour from
others. A real love is gained and desires are fulfilled by courtesy,
submissiveness, carefulness and honesty. Only by good manners and courtesy one
can accommodate himself in the love of heart of somebody. He who behaves nicely
is loved by all. Wise people always remain cautious about their own behaviours.
He who can control his own behaviour, cannot commit a crime. He who does not
act upon the suggestion of a dishonest man, does not remain in those path and
does not join with the people who criticises others, succeed in life. He is the
fittest person, whose hands are innocent and heart clean. Start like a victor
for the truth, courtesy and justice. Leave bad activities and protect your
body, leave bad words and protect your tongue and mind by leaving bad thoughts.
You can be saved from a great danger by your truthfulness, firmness, sacrifice and
ready wit. An efficient, courageous and tactful man is always a winner. By dint
of sweet words, good manner and courtesy, a hare can be the jockey of an
elephant. To learn good behaviour, one is to come in association with amiable
personalities. In this world, nobody is actually friend or foe of anybody but
by behaviour, a person is proved by his hearty behaviour with common people.
Way of talking, postures, conduct and character of a man is the half of
introduction about him. Nice behaviour makes others cordial. A great man
becomes greater when he behaves nicely with common people. A good man never
argues. A man is known by his behaviour. Behaviour is such a mirror, on which
everybody is reflected. By the conduct and behaviour of a person, his purity, friendliness
and firm devotion can be assessed. Greatness depends on behaviour. Popularity
and happiness depend on a man's behaviour with others. By dint of nice
behaviour and carrying out duties restlessly, a man remains immortal after his
death. Everybody has a weak side, don't want to know about that and don't hit
there. Summary of a good behaviour is to protect own prestige without
interfering on other' liberty. All situations are not under control of a man
but his behaviour is always under his control. To sacrifice for others, to look
after others' happiness not to hurt others and to help others, is called good
manner. To suppress own egoism and offensiveness and to beg excuse for any
fault, is also a good manner. Sympathy and love are also good manners. The
members of the family, where good manner is not there, are generally cruel,
lack commonsense, selfish, harsh spoken and impatience. Education is required
to behave well. And to misbehave, illiteracy is enough. A man's family is
identified by his behaviour. Good manner is expressed by behaviour, not by
dress. Good manner and courtesy are great qualities of a man. Good manner and
sympathy brings a lot. Patience, honesty, good manner and liberalism are the
characteristics of a wise man. Spitting or coughing anywhere, sitting with a
leg on another, standing or sitting keeping others back and keeping hand on the
check while sitting, are indecent. One should remain clam in all situations. To
have affection for others is a symptom of friendship. To be kind to others is a
sign of a sympathetic man. The best of all delights, is the delight for others'
happiness. Negligence means to remain in between the state of willing and
unwilling. Whatever is inclined, will be fulfilled, if fulfillment is needed,
it must come back. Courtesy is the most important factor to be a great man.
Flexibility is the foundation of progress. Your education, aristocracy and
wealth will be meaningless, if others say that you are not a gentleman. To show
respect to respectable persons, is a good manner and is the sign of a good
conductful man. To underestimate others and not to pay respect to them are the
signs of bad character and meanness. Aristocracy lies in behaviour, not in
dress, motor car, palatial house or wealth. A man's honesty is measured by his
behaviour, not by his dress. Courtesy and good manner, are the two old wealth
of mankind. You can very easily win a man's heart by courteous behaviour. But
too much courtesy is otherwise harshness. All gentlemen are self-educated and weak. In other
words, all weak people are gentlemen. Courtesy cost nothing but gains a lot. A
man can show foppishness if he has money, even he can show foppishness by
borrowing money. But to be a gentleman, one is to leave laziness and
negligence. One is to maintain good manner with his friends, relatives and
everybody else. Good manner is the greatest human quality. Not by a good face
but by dint of good manner, a man becomes popular to his nearer ones. He is a
gentleman, he is great, who admire truth, who regards humanity and whose glory
is his character and greatness.
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