Bad habits are the obstructions to attain a good
conduct. At the beginning, you are to make a habit with a bit troubles, but
later on it will be your nature. Make such habit that you can justify what is
right and what is wrong. Don’t suppress your mind and consciousness, otherwise,
you will find that you are deceiving with yourself. You are to feel the importance
of forming good habits and you are to form it through a long practice. New
shapes and qualities are added to ones personality through practice and
austerity. Growing good habits is the mystery of success. A character is
rectified by a continuous practice for it. A good habit is more valuable than a
lot of ideologies. Behaviour is controlled by emotion, emotion is subject to
experience. Acceptance or rejection of many incidents of a man’s life is guided
by his education which depend on the emotions of the person concerned. Human
behaviour is also under the control of some social customs. A man's behaviour
may change due to his physical change. Man is a willful entity, he has liberty
of his wills and actions. He is not a slave of external affects, rather he
himself is the controller of his actions and founder of his future. He can
convert a vice into a virtue with his sense of ethics and responsibility. He
can change his woes into weals. Actual gains can be attained by habits. Any
physical or mental change can he made by practice. A person himself is the
maker of all his rules and regulation. Moral principles are not inherent but
acquired which can be changed through change of habit. We develop idea about
the world with our feelings, perceptions and memories. A brain reacts with the
actions occur throughout its surroundings. As such a man reacts keeping peace
with different situations and controls his behaviour. This process in a method
of adjustment with the change of environment. By a regular practice, a man can
acquire concentration and qualities of love and devotion. Habit is the result
of repeated actions, human beings are the tourists in the world. Habit
sometimes makes a tough job into an easier one. Man is subject to his habit.
First of all, we grow our habits, then the habits itself lead us. A habit can
overcome another habit. We think according to our nature, talk according to our
moral principles and act according to our social customs. If you can create a
good habit, another bad habit of yours will be destroyed automatically. If you
succeed in neutrally observing the present situation around you before going to
bed, you can start a new life from that night itself. If necessary, you should
firmly believe on fulfillment of some of your desires and murmur your derives
repeatedly. Grow a habit and conduct it by your intelligence. To work, sleep,
enjoy recreations and smiling, are the matters of practice. Everybody cannot
remain cheerful. Those who can keep their minds steady and calm, can remain
cheerful all the time. Accept the reality and keep your mind calm, in this way,
you can recover many of your physical and mental diseases. You will surely get
peace of mind if you can control your breathing through practice. You should
rise early in the morning, properly accomplish your bathroom activities,
properly carry out your duties, properly observer your surroundings carefully
and try to rectify your conduct as required. Three habits make a man’s life
nice, those are association of wise persons, nice behaviour and keeping balance
in expenditure. There are three rewards for three habits, reward for silence is
peace, reward for fear from Allah is promotion of status and reward for service
is leadership. To listen to a good song is having a good effect, if you listen
to it for a moment even, it will react within you throughout your life. It
teaches us to love ourselves, to weep and make us easy going men. A man should
listen to attest a song, recite a poem, see a nice picture and if possible say
some good words daily. First of all call Allah and then do all your jobs. If
somebody is habituated to charity, study and meditation inherently, then he can
practice all these things throughout his life. A man acquires qualities through
his habits. We should spend our everyday as if it is the last day of our life.
There are four kinds of sleeping and it is having four kind of reactions. That
is lying on left side of the body creates sexual tendency in a man, lying on
back is wizardly, lying on right side of the body is like a lion and lying in
meditation is like a pious man. He who gets up late in the morning, remains
gloomy for whole the day. When a matured and healthy man gets up early in the
morning, it gives him much pleasure. Human bodies are subject to habits, it can
tolerate what is practised by it for a long time. Regular practice of a
particular habit curtails our time of thinking and working. A man's life is the
collection of many habits. If you follow a stern principle, others will be
disheartened, let others make himself according to his way of thinking. Changes
in behaviour occur due to ideological reasons and biological changes occur due
to natural causes. Everything depends on practice. But most of us are not ready
to accept these natural troubles. Practice makes a man perfect increases skill.
Our sense of comfort, hunger, desires and everything like it grows with our
habits. Telling the truth and writing nicely depend on practice. Truthfulness,
honesty, pure friendship and being an honest custodian of others wealth
honestly, help a man to be a pure man. PvjvK A clever man does not make a mistake to change
his habit with the change of time. A child laughs even at a flower, again he
enjoys killing an insect with his soft hand. As such, people has made fishing
and hunting birds and beasts as a habit, this is their sport, this is their
pleasure. A soldier punish a prisoner as habit and he does not repent at all, a
soldier does not hesitate to kill a man. A soldier kills men, retreats to his
home as a hero and again he embraces a woman or a child out of love but he does
not hesitate. If you can’t control your bad habits, soon it will be your
nature. Habit is the most powerful law of a man’s nature. One can attain
self-control through practice, thus he gets good effects and gradually it
becomes his habit. If you can’t control yourself your greed will go beyond
limit, you will suffer from many diseases and you will face an early and
abnormal death. When a human body is not required to wait for thinking and
taking decision to do something, it is called habit and some good habits
increases working efficiency of a person. Repeated practice of a particular act
becomes a habit of person. And this personal habit spreads it throughout a
society, it becomes a custom.
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