Personality is developed by the experience of
situations. Genius is the reflection of personality which is expressed by words
and acts. A person born and dies but his personality is immortal. Personality
is the key to all success. We should develop the spiritual, mental and
practical sides of our characters and well balanced personalities. We should
adapt different good ideologies in our characters so that one lives and
characters are formed properly. Every individual is basically having greatness,
vigour and purity in his character. Everybody is originally having all powers,
full-fledgedness and purity. We should just adjust it with our activities.
Negative attitudes are suicidal and generate inefficiency. Be confident that
you will succeed. Face the reality calmly, you will surely succeed. Merit,
intelligence, personality, etc. mainly depend on social situation and
environment. Proper nutrition, environment etc. are its external preconditions.
On the other hand, a developed formation of inherited brain, is an internal
precondition. The ideas, ideologies, faith knowledge etc. which will be entered
in the brain of an child, will be implemented in future by the actions of the
child. Life is an important matter, so we should lead it with the best use of
our commonsense. Character is the source of energy of life. One can’t have a
personality fully free from his surrounding environment. Personality consists
of thinking, feelings, emotions and character. Specially, limit, sense of
distress, poverty and differentiation of a person all are his mental affairs
and it depends on his activities or practical life. Personality of a man is
affected by his way of thinking, society and culture. Strength, excitement,
inspiration, attraction and repulsion and the controlling power of speed are
the factors of mobility of a personality. Inherited qualities, education and
social bindings influence the flourishment of personality to a great extent.
Although one’s physical development and characteristics depend on heredity to a
great extent, yet the environmental factors like food, nutrition, weather,
sickness, school, friends, facilities for education etc. affect the development
of physique and mentality. Heredity determines the limit of our development. As
such, we have limited capability to acquire anything. On the other hand, any
special quality inherited by somebody does not flourish properly in absence of
favourable situations. That means personality is a mix of heredity and
environment. Personality of somebody is influenced by his changing inherited
characteristics and qualities, surrounding environment, his own way of
thinking, hopes and aspirations, efficiency etc. Personality means the
combination of a person’s way of thinking,
emotions, attitudes, sense of values, feeling, love, inspiration, habits and
some of his physical characteristics, which keep on repeating the conduct of a
person. Personality is not static but dynamic. Generally, personality means the
overall character of a person through which his individuality is expressed.
Personality is the substance of a person. The habits formed by inspirations,
rewards, indications and reactionary factors, make the permanent structure of a
personality. People tend to- want to talk when they are under stress and respond
to kindness and understanding during trying circumstances. Operate within a
framework of personal and culturally derived values. People tend to respond
positively to individuals who display the same value system and negatively when
their core values are challenged. Respond to physical and, more importantly,
emotional self-interest. This may be as simple as responding to material
rewards such as extresponding to support in rationalizing guilt. A new set of
deadly motivational factors- where project slammer focused on motivations for
people violating the trust they had been given with access to sensitive
information, contrasts a differing set of psychological factors. Motivational
factor- easily despairing over their situation ‘I should have better than
this’. Short attention span ‘I am bored’. Polarized relationships/ responses
‘If you are not with me, you are against me’. Poor relationships ‘I am alone/
lonely’. Lack of maturity. Poor impulse control ‘I want it now’. Sociopathic
tendencies ‘who cares about you’. Conceited, self-absorbed ‘me, me, me’. Types
of reinforcement- positive reinforcement is an increase in the future frequency
of a behaviour due to the addition of a stimulus immediately following a
response. Giving (or adding) food to a dog contingent on its sitting is an
example of positive reinforcement (if this results in an increase in the future
behaviour of the dog sitting). Negative reinforcement is an increase in the
future frequency of a behaviour when the consequence is the removal of an aversive stimulus. Turning
off (or removing) an annoying song when a child asks their parent is an example
of negative reinforcement (if this results in an increase in asking behaviour
of the child in the future). Avoidance conditioning is a form of negative
reinforcement that occurs when a behaviour prevents an aversive stimulus from
starting or being applied. While it may appear so, punishment
is not the opposite of reinforcement. Rather, it has some other effects as well
as decreasing undesired behaviour. Other reinforcement terms- a generalized
reinforcer is a conditioned reinforcer that has obtained the reinforcing
function by pairing with many other reinforcers (such as money, a secondary
generalized reinforcer). In reinforcer sampling a potentially reinforcing but
unfamiliar stimulus is presented to an organism without regard to any prior
behaviour. The stimulus may then later be used more effectively in
reinforcement. Socially mediated reinforcement (direct reinforcement) involves
the delivery of reinforcement which requires the behaviour of another organism.
Primacy principle is a special case of reinforcement which states that a highly
preferred activity can be used effectively as a reinforcer for a less preferred
activity. Reinforcement hierarchy is a list of actions, rank-ordering the most
desirable to least desirable consequences that may serve as a reinforcer. A
reinforcement hierarchy can be used to determine the relative frequency and
desirability of different activities, and is often employed when applying the
premack principle. Contingent outcomes are more likely to reinforce behaviour
than non-contingent responses. Contingent outcomes are those directly linked to
a causal behaviour, such a
light turning on being contingent on flipping a switch. Note that contingent
outcomes are not necessary to demonstrate reinforcement, but perceived
contingency may increase learning. Contiguous stimuli are stimuli closely
associated by time and space with specific behaviours. They reduce the amount
of time needed to learn a behaviour while increasing its resistance to extinction. Giving a dog a
piece of food immediately after sitting is more contiguous with (and therefore
more likely to reinforce) the behaviour than a several minute delay in food
delivery following the behaviour. Noncontingent reinforcement refers to
response-independent delivery of stimuli identified serve as reinforcers for
some behaviours of that organism. However, this typically entails time-based
delivery of stimuli identified as maintaining aberrant behaviour, which serves
to decrease the rate of the target behaviour. As no measured behaviour is
identified as being strengthened, there is controversy surrounding the use of
the term noncontingent reinforcement. They are 'baited' with virtually
irresistible reinforcers that 'lure' the student to the trap. Only a low-effort
response already in the repertoire is necessary to enter the trap. Interrelated
contingencies of reinforcement inside the trap motivate the person to acquire,
extend, and maintain targeted academic/social skills. They can remain effective
for long time because the person shows few, if any, satiation effects. The
first characteristic of a personality is idom or sex. It is the sub-conscious
part of a personality and here there is no room for logic or conscience. Its
main principle is to satisfy the basic demand and to enjoy. The second
characteristic is egoism which is conscious and active. Egoism organizes and
control all behaviours of a person. The main function of egoism is to adjust
between the demands of opposite natures of idm and sub-conscious mind. The
third characteristic is moral or conscience. Ideology of a person is developed
through well co-ordination between his egoism and sub-conscious mind. The
actual indicators of one’s personality are his emotions, feelings, logical
thinking about controversial matters and an acceptable conduct according to
philosophy of life. Self-realization means to realize about one’s entity, which
is the central point of one’s personality. A personality consists of id, ego
and super ego. Id activates a person to overcome troubles and to take any
measure to attain happiness. Ego makes a person conscious about the social reality.
The conscious and sub-conscious ego expresses the moral ideologies. Super ego
evaluates a person's activities and its way. Super egoism of a person becomes a
moral critic of person and guides him to act according to its suggestions.
One’s personality can be developed through self recognition, self-determination
and active utterances or actions. Egoism is based on self-defense and sexual
tendency is based on reproduction of generation, which are the natural
instincts of human beings. Id removes unwanted tendencies and habits to
subconscious mind when id activate to acquire happiness. A personality is
guided by its internal possibilities, hopes and aspirations and ideologies.
Aiming at new objectives and continuous search for implementing aims to determine
the direction of a personality add a new significance in a life. The inner
power of character guides a person. To become an ideal man, a man should have
self-realization. A person faces problem when he cannot solve his habitual
conduct. A man may be physically not attractive but he can make his personality
beautiful by his neutral love. Which will surely be expressed his face, conduct
and expressions. One’s personality remains hidden behind the activities of his
personal life, his physio mental behaviours and his individual ideas. An ideal
man does not bother for everything around him. An ideal man justifies his
personal desires with the measuring stick of others. Man is sensitive to
approval and non-approval of his surrounding situations. Make your personality
firm, then nobody will be able to dominate you wrongfully. What does a man
want? The answer is quite easy, to live peacefully with his own conduct.
Expression of constructive protest is a sign of a man with a strong
personality. The best way of attaining a good personality and a higher status
is liberalism. A man can attain a charming personality only when he can avoid
loose talks and evil deeds. He who talks in line with everybody is having a
weak personality. Ability of making hue and cry is not a good personality, but
personality is such a humanly quality by which a man gets regard and love from
all. A great man is recognized by his habitual behaviour with the persons
junior to him. Personality is developed if a man can remain firm in his determination.
One’s characters can be judged his activity but his conduct is to be judged by
his aims, hopes, aspirations, ideas, feelings about the knowledge acquired by
his sense-organs and all his determinations and activities regarding his sense
of values. Follow a man who has a good character. Human conduct is the root of
variety in the world. Follow the straight path. Later on, it will be an
instance for others. Our aim of life should be to develop our character, by
which we can achieve tranquility. Men and women are naturally different. You
can't mould a woman according to your choice. If you want to get something done
by her, get it done accepting her characteristics, otherwise she will break
down. And breaking down means she will leave you. Our every movement of limbs,
every thought and any action leave some beliefs in our minds. One’s personal
character is determined and controlled by these beliefs. If someone thinks
about a good subject, does good deeds and thus create good beliefs in his mind,
those beliefs will inspire him for doing good deeds. You can do everything.
Human activities are guided by their characters created by their intelligence.
Human activities that is their characters are determined by the actions and
reactions of their environments. One’s character is known by his colour. When
yellow become wan obedience changes into disobedience. Class division are
absent to a good natured. As all shadows are of the same colour. He who is
benevolent, frugal, neutral, dutiful, diligent, pious, having integrity with
other, have regard for work, rectifies himself present gifts to other, remains
pure, justified and having humanly qualities is having a good character. The
common symptoms of a man with a good character is having sense of prestige is
efficient in conversation, is having religious mental attitude, is justifiable
and is courageous. Don’t degrade yourself, leave egoism and rectify your
character by calmness and self-control. He who is free from hypocrisy and is
simple is having the best character. He who is calm and quiet, free from
egoism, efficient, puritan, well behaved, well educated, self controlled, talks
less and shortly, free from anger, truthful, sweet spoken, peace loving,
obedient, regardful, cheerful, dutiful, judicious, steady, not offensive, wise,
keeps his sense organs under his control, firm, a good scholar, realizes
everything deeply adviser having ready wit and courageous, is really having an
ideal personality. Our characters are the results of our conduct. Egoism is the
slave of sense organs. One’s character depends on what he thinks, does and how
he reacts. In other words, that is the characters of a person. If you want to
know the actual character of a man, you are to mix with him closely for a long.
Everybody has three kinds of characters, which he shows openly, which is actual
and which he thinks to have. Your behaviour in the darkness, is your character.
Most of the people are hypocrite. Many people are quite opposite to his
appearance which normally see. Genius is developed in loneliness but character is developed in
the worldly affairs. Mix with the society if you want to make your character
strong but if you want to develop your merit austere in a lonely place.
Character is the permanent ornament of a person. One’s egoism grows on the
basis of his past experience. It is easier to try for keeping one’s characters
clean, than to revive a good characters after spoiling it. One can tolerate
troubles easily only when he reaches to a high stage of moral characters. He
who can keep his character upright even during his serious financial problem,
is having a good character. Change comes to one’s characters for three reasons,
those are association of powerful men, being powerful and gaining abundance of
wealth after leading a poor life. Remember that he is really intelligent whose
character is not changed after crossing one or more stages as mentioned above.
The process of building a character continuous from childhood upto death.
Genius is the best part of a man's character, and his humanly qualities is the
day light of his character, which is a vast thing and is firm. Glory of a good
characters proves itself greater than genius due to its broadness. There is no
doubt that a man superior in character is superior man as a matter of fact.
Simplicity of character is the natural manifestation of deep thoughts. Mental
laziness is responsible for spoiling a character. Character means not to
surrender before injustice. In fact, when we say character, we mean whatever is
the best of a man. Character of humanity is in wisdom and acts. Human character
consists of love, aspirations, pathos and beliefs. No doubt, a person having a
good character can win the world. There is nothing in the world which is
impossible for him.
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