Whatever the case may be, hide your personal woes with
your smile. He is greater who can hide his pleasure than he who can hide his
griefs. Grief are the sources of learning, like wisdom and wealth. Maternal
love, love of husband, children and the rewards for virtues are also attained by
extreme troubles. Grief burns the dirt and filths of one’s heart into ashes.
Weal and woe come one after another. Weal and woe comes in cyclic order. Be
careful that grief can’t lead you to destruction and happiness can’t
disinterest towards your duties. This is called self-control. Nothing is
permanent among all the occurrences of our daily life, as such sorrow is also a
temporary matter. We should neglect our grief with our wisdom, regardfulness,
good character and thoughtfulness. Only self-realization can remove our all
sorrows forever. Sorrows are also useful for us. Sorrow is a great teacher.
Only sorrow gives us an inner eye to think deeply about our lives. Spiritual
knowledge can suppress our grief’s to a large extent. Grief improves our
characters. It is quite natural that a man will make some mistakes for all the
time, so don’t worry much for it. You should blame the weakness of your
personality for any mistake done by you. One should not repent for his pass
losses. Don’t repent for your mistakes but remove the sense of crime from your
mind fully by apologizing and forgiving and forget the past and start
everything newly. The moment passed won’t come back again, don’t repent for it.
Everybody looks at the exterior side of troubles, but if they look into its
interior side he will find much useful matters for him. A grief accepted
voluntarily can be enjoyed like a wealth. Adversity does not come alone, it
comes collectively. It is wise to learn from others distress than from yours
own. The most bitter distressed position of a man is to think that once he was
happy. Not luck but other men are responsible for a man’s all adversities. He
who is coward, weak, gloomy, can’t tolerate hunger and thirst, blind, misled
and is suffering mentally too much. Can’t find out a companion. Let adversities
come, but pray to Allah that you can face it with firmness. Nobody is free in
fact. Everybody is restricted either by laws or social customs or religions
instructions. The more the cage will be smaller, the more the freedom will be
sweeter. A man becomes the prisoner by limitation of humanity and that is why
he is to prepare his two legs to move out. A man is born freely but everywhere
else he is chained up. He who is born in a cage has a deep fascination for the
cage. The world has some transactions with everybody. We must accept the two
fascinations, those are affection and serving. Fascination of grief is stronger
than that of delight. Pain means absence of happiness. Happiness is also not a
permanent state. Be firm, but not egoistic, proud or envious. Every aggrieved
soul is the symbol of honesty. We should take some remuneration from our bodies
for the satisfaction of our souls. Our souls get new and newer enthusiasms and
learn how to struggle with the increase of our knowledge. Thoughts and
struggles of an ignorant soul are valueless. Distressed persons possess less
moral courage. Weeping is the only solution of a distressed man. But the
distressed man who forgets to weep, is far above weal's and woes. When a sorrow
is too much, then a man can not cry and he can not shed tears even. Then all
his dreams vanish away and his hair becomes gray within no time. His deep
sorrow is buried in his heart and as it can not outburst itself it burns all
the dirts of a mans mind and his mind becomes pure. It is sorrow which is the
only price for all thing in the world. One day of sorrow seems to be like one
thousands days and one thousands happy days seem to be like one day. No man or
a nation can not attain success without sorrow, suffering, sacrifice and
perseverance. Whatever significant works a man done, he has done it in line of
sorrow. Whatever he has done without suffering can not be important for him.
The bird of sorrow may fly over your head but do not allow it to make nest on
your head. Those who have resistance against sorrow, sorrow seems less
important to them. Whatever we attain without courage and tears are not our
fullfledged attainments. Whatever we gain through sorrow and hardship is
received whole heartedly by our heart. When a sorrow becomes successful it
begets happiness. Then people rush to see the success. In this world sorrow is
absurd but everybody is afraid of it. Nobody wants to get the taste of sorrow,
although nobody is to pay for it. Sometimes it is only sorrow which can bring
salvation. Sometimes a sorrow helps a man to enrich his knowledge. For greater
flourishment of our lives, happiness and wealth are not the sources but men
gains strength from hurts and sorrows and reign over the whole world. Sorrow is
wisdom, sorrows and suffering are the matters of extreme shame in this world.
It is useless to look at it as a romantic matter. A man should hate it and
should end it through struggle in every moment. There is no spiritual gain to
take sorrow as a gain but to accept sorrow through love is spiritualism. Sorrow
is absurd and happiness is like a mirage. If you do not fall in distress you
won’t learn how to get rid of it. It is like rain which washes away all dirt.
When you get chance enjoy happiness nicely and when fallen in troubles,
tolerate it calmly. A coward repents uselessly for his grief. A man can never
get rid of hunger, thirst, fear and detachment. A man follows the ancient way
of attack as competition through his mental weakness. He who can not face his
mental shocks, always suffers from passion of death and it roots down his
subconscious mind. When a man is disheartened, he can refuse the world and
accept death. When a man thinks life is meaningless, hope and desires are deaf
to him, than he leave all his hopes to live and wants to die. When life becomes
enemy to a man and everybody becomes deaf to listen to his desires, then the
world tells to leave and grave invites him to its bed. Then he condemns the
enemical world for the last time and defends himself through suicide. One can
not take revenge through suicide but self establishment makes a revenge
greater. Those who suicides, do not know how to live. One can't escape from
reality, only love and delight can bring salvation. Man suffers more from various
bindings than fear of oppression of the rulers and various prejudices. There
are two kinds of grief in the world. One is unfulfillment of your desires and
the others is to desire for a new thing after fulfillment of one. He whose
circle of society is larger is more sufferer. It is wonderful that although a
man knows it yet he keeps on enlarging the circle of his society. You are to
face grief as long as you are alive. Everybody is to suffer from all these
troubles. A wise man feels it wisely and an illiterate feels it by weeping.
Continuous progress of civilization and knowledge are increasing our grief's
day by day. Sorrow and poverty spoils a mans soft feelings. Mental pain is
worse than a physical pain. All the friends avoid him who suffers for all the
time. Nobody wants to share the sorrows of others. It is better to tolerate the
sorrow alone, which has no remedy. Otherwise you should tell the cause of your
grief to him, who can give you a slight relief or can remove your sorrow. A man
gets relief from his sorrow to a great extent if he can trust on somebody gets
his sympathy and friendly behaviour. One can tolerate a grief alone but he can
not enjoy a happiness alone. When a man earn his livelihood in any unwanted way
or if he remains in anxiety in maintaining his wealth is called calamity of
desire. An aged woman who has lost her beauty of youth and disheartened by it,
is called calamity of beauty. He who always remain neutral to happiness or
sorrow is never weakened by sorrow. He who have any desire is the most
aggrieved man. Fear and unfulfilled desirers are the root of all sorrows.
Illiteracy is the only cause of sorrow and gloominess, anger, envy and
addiction are its effects. Where there is no want there is no grief. A man
feels aggrieved due to his mental reaction. Ignorance grows due to lack of
knowledge, egoism comes from pride, anger comes from frustration, envy comes
from narrow mindedness, assiduity comes from fear of death and mental
sufferings come from mental reaction. A mans heart becomes prevented when he
purifies his actions curtails all his desires and his hart stop consequence.
Sufferings or love are the roots of all grief's. Bondage- consists of egoism,
doubt, good conduct, sexual desires, anger, material gain, desire for heaven, self-conceit, passion,
addiction, offensiveness, ignorance, hindrance, belief in false religion,
suspicion, feeling of interest towards the world, envy, false doctrine,
distress, act, wickedness, eating, praise, ignorance, anger, consultation,
monotony, greed, vice, delusion, pride, shame, hatred, fear, caste, haughtiness
and diffidence. Leaving all these connection a man become free. Sufferings come
and go in human lives. The unavoidable result of limitation of a person is
distress or grief. Thirst for sexual gratification, thirst for worldliness,
thirst for wealth produce misery. Memory of the past desire is the source of
all grief. There are three kinds of griefs- happiness, sorrow and the situation
in between. Whatever is painful at present will also be painful in future. Some
people feel intense desire, deep attachment, constant misery and dejection in
nature. Madness or agony are lust or greed, anger or cruelty, wicked or
disobedience and rebellion, deep attachment or ignorance, yaksha or
superstition, gall or love, wine or intoxication, vice or anguishes. It is sad
when a rich becomes a poor, an honourable man is dishonoured and an educated
man behaves like and uneducated one. A scholar, son, a like minded wife and a
dearly friend is always scarce. Poverty, disease, grief, tie, trouble etc. are
the fruits of the sin tree. It is not good to do much crime. Too much of
hunting, day sleeping, criticizing others, dancing, singing, playing,
unnecessary roaming, visiting, prostitutes and drinking wine are crime act.
Hypocrisy offensiveness rebel, envy, cheating, harsh, talking and exercising
excessive power are crime rage. Four things suffer a person too much, a bad
neighbour a disobedient child a talkative wife and a crowded residence. Death
of wife, insultation by a relative, loan, service of a wicked man, poverty,
association of wicked people, residing in village with wicked people, taking
service of a man from low origin, taking unhealthy food, offensive wife,
illiterate son and widow daughter burn a man like fire. His life is distressed
whose wife has died in his old age, whose wealth is in the grip of somebody
else and who is depended to somebody else for his fooding. Illiteracy is
painful, youth is also painful but living in others house is more painful. There
is no pain like separation and no punishment like repentance. The greatest
troubles of life are wealth and a beautiful wife. It do not allow someone to
remain lonely with austerity for even a while. Ignorance and indifferent
attitude beget grief. All the fears, anxieties, dangers, mistakes, weakness
sins and grief’s come from the sub conscious mind of a man. The pains a heart
receives from death of nearest one, diseases, separation of loveable and
associations of disliking people are more than the waters of the five oceans.
There are eight kinds of grief- birth, infirmity, diseases, death, association
of disliking, separation of loveable, lack of desired thing, getting undesired
thing, is too much troublesome to lead a life with so much pain. Ignorance, prejudice,
consciousness, names and forms, six inner seats, touch, pain, thirst,
ingredient, world, grief, weeping, depression of mind and lack of peace are
sorrows. Infirmity and death follow a birth. Fire, blood, disease and epidemic
are the natural disasters. Troubles or grief are of three kinds spiritual,
super natural and natural. Spiritual grief comes from inherent vices, supper
natural grief comes due to creatures and inanimate objects and natural grief
comes due to a sudden occurrence. Avoid feeling of spiritual grief with the
power of meditation. If you're hurt by
somebody show mercy to him and forget your supper natural grief. If you are
aggrieved due to some unknown reasons, forget your natural grief through controlled
food and drink and meditation. You are to tolerate or accept the three kinds of
grief, like spiritual grief, supper natural grief and natural grief during
weals and woes. Eyes, skin, ears, tongue, nose, mind, heart, intelligence and
pride are the source of spiritual trouble. Touch, sound, taste, scent,
consciousness, remarks, feelings and pride are the sources of supper natural
trouble. Wind, direction and Neptune are sources of natural trouble. There are
four elements and results of desire- sexual desire, view, purifications and
selfishness. If you want to get rid of ignorance and acquire knowledge, then
you can understand religion, sex, acquire sense of justment and purification
and you will be more or less benevolent to others. When a man wants to get
satisfaction from an inciting mater and feel pride then you are fallen to
grief. Only through conversion of selfishness into a sacrificing personality,
you can become a happy man. In this world who can get rid of selfishness, can
get rid of all mental sufferings. As drops of water fall down from the leaf of
a lotus likewise all sorrow go away from that man. Those who do not expect for
what is impossible, do not repent for what is lost and do not lose heart while
in trouble, are intelligent and stable. The world is full of sorrows only for the
ignorant persons. Mourning, delight, fear, anger, grief, illusion, desire,
mental anxiety, insulation, restless ness or harassment comes from egoism. We
should drive away our egoism with the help of our conscience. An unconscious
man is not affected by such thing. Sexual tendency, sentiment, wealth and
desires bring adversity for a man. Grief can be driven away through sacrificing
attitude and self control. Although beginning of a fascination is happy yet it
creates unhappiness at the end. He is really wise who is free from all
fascinations. He always moves happily. Fascination is occurred with occurrence.
All types of fascinations are the sources of grief. Only getting out from it is
the way of salvation. An affectionate man gets various kinds of mental hurts. A
desire is the mother of grief, we should leave our greed for ourself
development. What is the use of being mourned suffering from indecision and
fall in danger by being selfish? Avoid feeling mentally weak. Fascination
creates when desire for object raise. Conjugal unhappiness is the worst
unhappiness of all. If you can avoid the feelings of grief, hatred and fear you
can get rid of many troubles. There are eight ways of relief from grief those
are. Proper sense of understanding- a clear conception grows from proper
knowledge, listening to others opinions and reforming once mentality. Free mind
is the expected result of clear conception. To give importance as it deserves
is called clear conception, that is proper knowledge about good acts or proper
knowledge about the cause and effect of all acts. Proper determination- that is
a good determination without anger and revengeful attitude. Proper talking-
that is to tell meaningful and true words properly. Proper activities- that is
to behave and act properly. Honest livelihood that is to lead life with honest
earning. Proper care- that is thinking honestly, increase initiative, self
control and maintaining a stable personality. A good memory is that which
reminds about good things. Proper remembrance- that is continuously remembering
the good things, firm of honest acts, brittleness of life and to thing about
the world hereafter. And Nirvana- that is to keep a heart self controlled, pure
and meditation of life’s deep truth of knowledge. To know the unknown facts,
engage your full efforts and try to attain the concentration of your mind
immediately. Practice of the above mentioned disciplines is the way to stop all
the addictions, desires and grief. Practice of the eight paths, disciplines is
required to stop the desires or grief. Form is created by the earth, water, air
and fire. Pain comes from the object judgment and happiness or unhappiness by
analyzing object. Definition means by which we can identify a person or a
object. Reform mens the idea which is derived from the pain and definition of a
form. Science is the combination of mind, appearance, pain, definition and
reform. When these five elements gradually control addiction, desire and bring
to an end through give up is called disappearance of grief. Affection for five
elements of existence, forms, pain, definition, science, reforms are comes from
the desire of enjoyment, existence and power. Prejudiced comes due to
ignorance, consciousness due to prejudice, in this way arise names and forms,
six inner seats, touch, pain, desires, ingredient, world, birth, infirmity,
death, grief, lamentation, sorrow, dejection, frustration and anxieties are the
common characteristics and which are stopped by restraint. Attain phenomenal
results by rhythm, courage, mind, benevolence and prosperity. A man is regarded
by all when he acts properly and is having reasonable confidence upon the
results of his activities. A man can become courage through perseverance.
Proper exercise means which is wholehearted continuous and honest efforts.
Three kinds of existence- desire, form, formlessness. Respiration is bodily
tendency. Debating judgment is a tendency of speech. Definition of pain is a
mental tendency. We should work for attaining peace by removing the obstacles
on its way, one by one. Knowledge and wisdom mean which lead us to physical,
verbal and mental good deeds and to the way of removing our grief. To resist a
sense of grief it is better to resist sad feelings or repentance. You are to
keep yourself happy by being busy for livelihood. Life is full of sorrows and
desires are the roots of all sorrows, so we cane get rid of sorrow by getting
rid of our desires. Ignorance is the root of all sorrows, if we abolish the
causes of the sorrows we can get rid of sorrows. By thinking about oneself
acquiring knowledge about our daily life, correct and proper knowledge, taking
medicine when required, leading an honest life, we can subside our sorrows for
the time being. A man suffers from infirmity, diseases, mourning etc as a result
of his deeds. As such all the religions teach human being to pray to Allah, to
have regard for him to do ones duties properly and to love all creatures and
thus to get relief from all grief. Try to learn what is grief, its causes and
the ways for its remedy. You are neither a member of this world or the world
hereafter and this is end of all your sorrows. We can remove our sorrows
through proper knowledge about sorrows. If you are alert about the after
effects of any desires, your can not desire for anything. A painful memory
comes to our mind again and again, we should think that we do not have any pain
and we won't be dominated by any pain. We should think that what is seen,
heard, opined, known, received, mentally analyzed are not mine and I am not influenced
by it. In this way we should look at and think about everything and we won’t
feel that we have any want. I’m not mine due to loss and spent of temporary
wishful body. A desireless life means the life which has no fascination as
nirvana. Tear off the rope of fascination and be relieved from dieing at every
moment. To be relived from resurrection is the salvation. By controlling ears,
nose, tongue, body and mind a man remains free from grief. Maturity and power
of the five senses determines a mans ambition and removes his grief. You can
remove all your grief through physical, verbal and mental virtues, and if you
do not indulge yourself in any new sin, do not be addicted to any bad habit,
than all your sorrows and pains will go away. You can win all your sorrows by
being regardful, courageous, meditated, justified, honest and lawful. A man
suffers for his bad uttering and dishonest looking. Those who are less spoken,
get relief from the grief of death even. If you take everything easily, half of
the suffering of your life will go away automatically. The best way of
forgetting griefs is not to care for any grief. If you clean your mind slowly,
calmly, carefully and gradually one day you will be physically and mentally
fully clean and all your sorrows will be vanished. The main causes and the
remedies of our grief are within ourselves, it is not out of our reach.
Happiness and unhappiness are not physical matters, our physiques are free from
all controversies. When a man becomes restless through problems, he loses his
intelligence, power of observation and everything else. It is not sad to be
blind, but it is sad to lose the power of tolerating the blindness. The
terrible sound of thunder and the dazzling focus of lighting comes together and
vanishes together. The worst situation doesn’t last long. Good days come soon.
Whatever is having a start, is having an end. Alls well that ends well. It is
wise to accepts what has already happened. Because if you can accept any
situation easily you can overcome it easily. Life is full of incidents, the
first step to overcome a trouble is to take it easily. If you can accept
anything calmly, you can overcome any problem. The best way of removing fatigue
and excitement is to take everything easily. A grief may be a great one but
passage of time makes it normal automatically. There is no night which won’t be
over. There is no grief which won't become light after some time. There are
three ways of tolerating distressed conditions. By being neutral to it,
philosophically and religiously confident. The main cause of separation is to
avoid the troubles of life. Above all it is a kind of mentality to avoid hard
work and love like neuter. It is certain that danger will come and we are to
survive against it. Do not be afraid of sorrows, do not be suppressed by wants
you will surely be able to clean your way yourself with your unlimited power
and continuous austerity. We should not keep the memories of troubles, pain,
hurts and insults in our mind. We should try to shed off our painful memories
from our mind and to stand erect as soon as possible. A wise mans heart is like
a mirror, it will always remain clean and will reflect everything. Real mental
peace will come if you can accept the most crucial problem very easily. From
psychological point of view it is the release of power. When we are prepared
for the worst possible situation, we do not have fear to lose anything. To
avoid sorrows and troubles, ask yourself what maybe the worst situation. When
it is certain make it acceptable. Then think calmly how to overcome the worst
situation.
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